Wednesday, October 31, 2007

A Relaxing Break

Just had the most relaxing morning ever... Anywhere! For the longest time ever! am in Hawaii... and instead of spending tme at the beach, Jules has booked us into a little cottage up in the mountains. The result is that the sun is shining brightly, and I am donning a windbreaker! Funnily enough, it's day 5 of our holiday (oh how fast time flies), and we've only stepped onthe the beach for all of 1 minute. Was stuck down with gastric for a day, a massive headache the next, but this morning... the stars have finally aligned! Beautiful weather, woke up to Jules boiling water for coffee *gasp*

Spent the morning at the lavendar farm, high up in the mountains, looking down on 2 separate coastlines, surrounded by a "sea" of purple lavender... Now, if only I had my storybook with me. Am now writing this on a little wooden bench at a cattle ranch, with the sun shining down, but it's a cool 23 degrees and I just had the best ground beef burger. How I wish this holiday would forever be suspended in time.

It's Halloween tonight... ponder... will anyone come trick or treating?


Our little cottage in Kula, Maui

Relaxing

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Defining Cheating

There's gonna be a stag night tonight! I know Jules is looking forward to it coz it's gathering of all his closest friends! After a couple of hours at the Interior Designers sorting out materials, colours and concept, we were having a beer (yes, beer again) and he was recapping how he met all these individuals. Yes, I have definitely heard these stories before, but it was his night of nostalgia.

We started talking about the actual plans for his stag night, and whether it was going to be "clean" or "sleazy"... since "K" is the one planning the night... haha, there was only one logical conclusion. And so the conversation went:

Me: aren't you afraid that I'm gonna complain?
Him: but I'm telling you about it, so it's okay. And it's a stag night, so it's allowed
Me: hmmm... I suppose so... as long as there's no home run
Him: there should never be any home runs.
Me: then how come I'm not allowed to have a sleazy party?
Him: sure you can, as long as you tell me about it.

On the way home, I was just thinking... guys and gals are really quite different yeah? To Jules, it was quite natural that liberties are okay as long as (a) it's a stag night, (b) he's been frank about it. However, when we had this other conversation about liking two people at the same time, even if there was no physical intimacy, he was quite certain that it was "the wrong thing".

As I grow older, am not so sure how I feel about it already... is it worse to develop feelings for another, or is it worse to be intimate with someone else? Ponder Ponder.

One thing I am sure of though... stag nights are definitely permitted to be a little rowdy (or raunchy)... the usual rules don't apply (just no home runs) :)

Friday, October 12, 2007

My 24hour Party

And they beat me to it again... two little chicks have managed to post their thoughts about our little party before I did. I really think the two of you are addicted to the internet.

Well, before I start getting all meticulous and detailed (two must have traits when finding a job), I guess I just wanna say that I really had a good time. How not to? Especially when a whole group of close friends either (a) took an entire day off to spend time with you; (b) turned up at work looking out-of-love and zombified. Just thinking of it makes my heart go warm and fuzzy, and makes my head big. *big smiles*

The build up to the day was all a-flurry... I had a zillion things left undone at work, and for the millionth time this month ended up lunching in. After repeated errors / confusion with a particular "silverware" shop, I finally had my little momentos for the gang nicely packed, complete with individual "love letters". (By the way, I have confirmed it, it's ladybird in British English... you know, ladybird books?; and ladybugs in north american english)

The gang had actually thought through the plans very carefully indeed... and the schedule was:
  • Dinner at Nanjya Monjya
  • Mambo night at Zouk
  • A night's sleep at Swissotel the Stamford!

Dinner was a really pleasant affair although L could not make it, and PR had to eat cold leftovers. I still really dig the restaurant and forsee myself making repeated (and I mean repeated) visits to this place... Did not bring my camera though... so can't post pics of the yummy food. Hmmm...

Zouk was really quite hilarious. For the first time in my life, I turned up at 8pm (just before we had dinner) in an attempt to get a chop. We soon found out that it doesn't even open till 9pm, and that ladies now enter free on Wednesdays! I really cannot remember when was the last time I went to Mambo...

Spent the next few hours initiating PR to Zouk (can you believe that the gal is a Zouk virgin?), trying to drink a couple of drinks (after last Friday I am really afraid of alcohol), and looking at the young trying to jiggle to tunes made famous many many years ago. Think Zouk has always and will always be a very special place for me. It's one of those places where at every little corner, some memories will surface. As with all memories, there will be good ones and bad... but in a way, it's a place that has actually tracked my growth over the past 10 years? The funny thing is, am sure that many of my friends will actually share the same sentiments. After all, there was only 1 place to be back then. MT and the old tortoise joined us for the night out... It felt really good to be out with so many friends. :)

Think that alot has changed since my last visit there... definitely no more VIP treatment for me *sobs* even the trusty bartenders and bouncers have changed! Yet so many things look and feel familiar. Took a little trip down memory lane by myself... starting from my fav spot by the bar counter, into phuture, to velvet... and walking down to the waterfront. Think that it was the first time I was standing by the water alone... *grin* Funnily enough, I can remember all the times that I was by the waterfront very clearly indeed. Noted all the drunken couples stealing a quiet moment, and the really comatose ones collapsing on the floor in a bid to sober up, and I couldn't help but chuckle.

Am sure the gang felt that I was a spoilsport that night, but I really wasn't in the mood for drinking. Nevertheless, they managed to haggle me into getting up on the podium, where I sashayed for all of 20 minutes before escaping. :) L, S and my little sis continued right on for the majority of the night. Think they are just naturals...

Think the highlight of the night was my little sis. I have never ever seen her in her element... and boy was she hot. The little (ok, not so little) gal can really dance. I think there were certain members of my group who were having heart palpitations and guilt attacks at the same time... (you know, the "hot gal" should look, oh crap! cannot look, it's the baby sis feeling). Truth to be told, seeing her all grown up made me feel really old. But I am glad she had fun mixing with us old ones... I know she definitely liked the dinner and the hotel room

Coz we were so well behaved the night before, the next day started really early for us... breakfast at Ya Kun in Raffles City in our T-shirts, shorts and slippers on a working morning! Boy did we stand out! I felt like I was in university again *grin*. The day was spent lazing around... swimming at the pool, late lunch, coffee and karaokae (with many many wang lee hom clips... he's so cute!)

All in all, it was alot of fun... unfortunately, not sure when we can ever do this again.

最愛的人不是妳

Had an absolutely spanking 24 hour party... it's been a long while since I had so much fun. Thanks little chicks, and the not so little non chicks (will definitely blog about it later).

Somewhere in the party... we sang this song (which incidentally is rather special to me)... and S asked a very interesting question... would you prefer to be the ex girlfriend, or the current girlfriend?

你剪下我一束髮 
繞在無名指上
揚著笑仰著臉說 
當作指環好嗎
你等著我回答 
等到泛起淚光
可是請相信我當時同樣悲傷

愛情啊原來是個 
精心設計的謊
每個人都被安排 
為某個人受傷
她出現得太早 
而你來得太晚
有一天妳也會有我這種遺憾

最愛的人不是妳
這不只讓妳傷心
但我的心裡還在枯等 
一個遠去身影

最愛的人不是妳 
卻忍不住愛上妳
我真的愛妳 
但永遠無法 
像愛她般愛你

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

That feeling in your stomach

Was working in office last night... since it was after office hours, I felt justified to pepper my work with bouts of msn conversations. So I was talking to Q and to T... and both were telling me about impending hospital visits, but for different reasons. For some reason, my stomach just churned. I can't really explain it... but am sure you know that feeling, "the" feeling of anxiety that just strikes you.

For some reason, have been having many bouts of this acutally. I even came up with a nickname for it... it's called the "butterfly effect"... like it better than "that sinking feeling". :) It could be the very non organised wedding preparations, it could also be that I HAD to conduct Learning & Education training, or it could even be the thought of what the gals would be doing to me on my hen night... but I've really had alot of stomach churning incidents in the past two weeks... so much so that I've come to expect it.

Am I simply a nervous wreck? But then again, I'm not always stressed when the stomach churns (apart from when I am thinking about instructing L&E). I think it's just whenever something unexpected happens... that's my body's natural reaction. Yes, it all ties with me being a control freak. *smiles* I just need to know what is happening next... hiaz

Well, the unexpected "good" about this stomach churning? I'm not putting on weight despite the number of dougnuts that I have been eating!!! There are two doughnut shops within easy reach of my current work place, with no sight of a queue... so yes, I have been indulging. Yummy!

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

差一点

Heard this new song this morning... have not had the chance to fully digest it yet, but I think it has the potential to be the next new hit as there are most probably many out there who can relate to it. :)

差一点
你就是我的女人
差一些
手牵手的完整
却在对的时间错过对的人
抓不住幸福时分

遇上了错的人
渐渐的吻在她无心的嘴唇
感觉像一个旅程
走完了就分

错过了对的人
决定就只在那一秒那一分
爱情的岔口
你是我等不到的路人

差一点
你就是我的女人
差一些
就和你共度一生
因为对的时间对的人
就值得我为你奋不顾身

错过了对的人
决定就只在那一秒那一分
如果没缘分
我也会固执的为你一人

Now to find an opportunity to listen to it properly... maybe now that I have gotten hold of the lyrics, I'll be able to relate too!

Sunday, October 07, 2007

Bizarre Night

It's weird how things kinda fall into place totally on it's own. Have not been a clubbing person in the longest time... actually since L and I have stopped trying to drink ourselves silly many years back. Friday nights were more or less just chill time with the gang. Then a few months back, I started having to spend more and more Fridays with Jules, settling some stuff or other. Little by little, the gang stopped asking me out on Fridays, and everyone proceeded with his / her own plan.

Lately, with Jap lessons, I ended up being in office alot more often in the past... and started hanging out with the people in office... that led to drinking, and yes, clubbing... with people that I don't know at all, partner's. Then came S's farewell party at Butter Factory (it was my first time there!), and I felt so weird... it's been such a long time since I had to put on anything remotely "dressed up". Hee...

This Friday was another one of those weird episodes. Had nothing to do after work since Jules was having drinks with his colleagues. The colleagues offered to take me out, since as per Belle "we know you are unwanted on Fridays"... haha... I really should not have told her that two weeks ago. About the same time, T asked if I would like to hang out with some of his friends since he was going to show some of them around Singapore. Not wanting to spend Friday night bitching about work... I said yes.

Must say it turned out to be a really weird night (2 Singaporeans - T and me, 1 Australian - Cam, 2 Londoners - Lou and Iss, and 1 ?? nationality - HH)... went down to Newton for dinner, then headed down to St James since it was HH's birthday. The idea was to ensure that HH would be sufficiently sloshed.

Must say that on Friday I kinda experienced Singapore in another way... from an expateraite's point of view I suppose... and I finally realised why some of our "whiter foreign talent" loves being in Singapore. They really do enjoy better than normal service, and have also come to expect this better than normal treatment. The night did not really end too way as Cam was really misbehaving, HH was really very sloshed... and I actually started wondering how local gals are viewed by the expat community. I ended the night with mixed feelings with regards to the people that I was mixing with... But nevertheless... it was an interesting night out